Relationship Assessment — ClarityTest

ClarityTest

Step 1 of 7

Please answer all questions on this page before continuing.

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Emotional Connection

Answer honestly — there are no right or wrong answers here.

Question 1 of 40

I feel emotionally close to my partner

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 2 of 40

My partner understands my feelings and emotions

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 3 of 40

I feel lonely even when we're together

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 4 of 40

I can share my deepest fears and insecurities with my partner

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 5 of 40

My partner makes me feel loved and valued

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 6 of 40

I feel safe being emotionally vulnerable with my partner

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

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Communication

Think about your day-to-day conversations and disagreements.

Question 7 of 40

My partner really listens when I talk

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 8 of 40

I can express my needs and desires openly

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 9 of 40

I avoid bringing up important topics because of how they might react

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 10 of 40

We have constructive conversations when we disagree

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 11 of 40

My partner dismisses or minimizes my concerns

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 12 of 40

I feel heard and understood by my partner

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 13 of 40

We can discuss difficult topics without it turning into a fight

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

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Trust & Respect

Be honest — these questions reveal a lot about relationship safety.

Question 14 of 40

I trust my partner completely

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 15 of 40

My partner respects my boundaries

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 16 of 40

I have concerns about my partner's honesty

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 17 of 40

My partner treats me with respect

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 18 of 40

I feel comfortable being my true self around my partner

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 19 of 40

My partner criticizes me or puts me down

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

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Intimacy & Affection

Answer based on how you actually feel, not how you think you should feel.

Question 20 of 40

I'm satisfied with our physical intimacy

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 21 of 40

We show affection regularly (hugs, touch, small gestures)

Rarely or never

Sometimes

Moderately

Frequently

Very often

Question 22 of 40

I feel desired by my partner

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 23 of 40

Our intimate needs and desires are compatible

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 24 of 40

I look forward to intimate moments with my partner

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

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Compatibility & Values

Think about your long-term vision and how well your lives fit together.

Question 25 of 40

We share similar values and life goals

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 26 of 40

I genuinely enjoy spending time with my partner

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Most of the time

Always

Question 27 of 40

We have significant disagreements about important issues (money, family, future)

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Constantly

Question 28 of 40

My partner supports my personal goals and ambitions

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 29 of 40

We have fun together and enjoy similar activities

Rarely

Sometimes

Moderately

Frequently

Very often

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Conflict & Concerns

This section often reveals the most important patterns. Be honest.

Question 30 of 40

We resolve conflicts in a healthy way

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 31 of 40

Arguments escalate quickly to yelling or hurtful words

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost always

Question 32 of 40

My partner makes me feel guilty or manipulates me to get their way

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Regularly

Question 33 of 40

I have concerns about controlling or jealous behavior from my partner

No concerns at all

Minor concerns occasionally

Some concerns

Serious concerns

Major ongoing concerns

Question 34 of 40

After arguments, we talk things through and genuinely reconnect

Never — things just go silent

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Always

Question 35 of 40

I walk on eggshells to avoid upsetting my partner

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Almost always

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The Big Picture

Last 5 questions. Answer what you truly feel, not what you wish were true.

Question 36 of 40

Overall, I'm satisfied with my relationship

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 37 of 40

I can clearly see a long-term future with my partner

Definitely not

Probably not

Uncertain

Probably yes

Absolutely yes

Question 38 of 40

I often think about what it would be like to be single or with someone else

Never

Rarely

Sometimes

Often

Very often

Question 39 of 40

This relationship brings out the best version of me

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Question 40 of 40

If I had to decide today, I would choose to stay in this relationship

Definitely not

Probably not

Unsure

Probably yes

Definitely yes

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